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it was thirty years ago today . . .




    Putney United Methodist Church, London, England


Hi there -- I'm back!

Today, Len and I are celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary!!

(Obviously, I was a child bride.)

We met and married in London, where I was teaching high school English, and he was a civil engineer designing a railroad in Algeria (I posted about our meeting here.)

Alack, he was a slippery and subtle knave, and I was in my salad days, green in judgment.

I found out that in England:

1. The ceremony must be performed in a registry office or church. No garden weddings.

2. Bridesmaids follow the bride down the aisle.

3. Single women are called spinsters on the marriage license.

Much to the tsk tsk of the minister, who thought we had everything backwards, I had my maid of honor and bridesmaid precede me down the aisle, American style.

  
           With Lynn, Ron (Len's brother), Maruta and Jim.

I had always wanted a small wedding, where we knew all the guests. My long-time friend, Lynn, flew in from Hawai'i to be my maid of honor, and my Wimbledon roomie, Maruta (PE teacher from Minnesota), served as bridesmaid. Immediate family traveled from Hawai'i and New Hampshire.

Of course, my dad was there to give me away:

    

We had a total of 35 people at the reception, which was an Elizabethan banquet.

Here's the skinny on the place, complete with menu:





              We all gathered in the Linenfold Room.
         

While the minstrel played "Greensleeves" on his lute,
   

  friendly, buxom wenches peddled boar's head pate.


We had a merry time feasting, smoking clay pipes,


and drinking mead out of two-handled mugs.
      

        Cutting the cake was no easy feat --
     

nobody told us about royal icing (it's as hard as cement)!
      


But as a famous writer once said, "All's well that ends well."
 
Today I cannot believe that 30 years has passed. We're fortunate to have our health, dear friends and family, work that we enjoy, and most important, we're still each other's best friend. 

  ANNIVERSARY CONTEST!

Now, I'd like to celebrate this milestone with all of you. Every couple has "their song," and we're no different. If you can guess what "our song" is, you'll win a $30 Amazon gift card!

If more than one person (or no one) guesses correctly, we'll ask one of the bears to draw the winner. If you mention this contest on your blog, you get 3 guesses (otherwise, one guess per person, please)!

HINT:  Keep in mind that Len and I met in the late 70's -- so our song was written, released, and very popular then. In fact, it was included on one of the seminal albums that defined the decade.

Please leave your guesses (or links) in the comments, or if you prefer, email me: readermail (at) jamakimrattigan (dot com). Deadline is midnight (EST), Friday, September 5, 2008.

Good Luck, and 30 good wishes to all of you!

          
                

 

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Happy Anniversary! :)
Thanks, Jenny!

VERY COOL!

Congratulations! HAPPY, HAPPY HAPPY!!!

I would have thought your song would be...

"I Will"

Happy anniversary!

:-)
Thanks, Jo! Loved all the posts about SF. Jealous too . . .

Congrats!

Happy Anniversary!!! I'll have to think about the song...

(and here's an MGB for Len).

Re: Congrats!

Len definitely likes your MGB. There's just something about little red sports cars . . . I'm anxious to see what song you pick!
Oh Jama, congratulations! Thanks so much for sharing your special day with us. I'm going to have to think about that song ... In the meantime, happy anniversary!
Thanks, Tricia. Do enter the contest!
You two look so beautiful. Happy Anniversary!!!

Thank you so much for showing these pictures.

Yay! It's such a happy start to my day.
I'm glad this post made you happy!

(Anonymous)

Congratulations! I love looking at wedding photos - thanks for sharing. One of my best friends recently married a British guy, so it was fun to hear about some of the wedding ceremony differences from them too. They held the wedding here in the U.S., so they stuck with the American traditions.

I'll guess I Honestly Love You by Olivia Newton John as your song.

Kristi Valiant
http://kristivaliant.blogspot.com
Thanks for the guess! Lucky friend -- she'll get to hear that wonderful accent all the time.
Happy anniversary!
Thanks, Jeannine. What, no song?
Happy Anniversary! Ours is tomorrow. :)
Our guess is:
"Just the Way you Are"
Oohh, Billy Joel. Nice pick!

Happy Anniversary tomorrow!!
Congrats.
My guess is Three Times A Lady
Good guess, Janet. Lionel was definitely big in the 70's.
Happy Anniversary! Thanks for rewinding the wedding experience for us. It was so, so lovely.

I vote for EVERGREEN, from the A STAR IS BORN album and movie by Barbara Streisand.
Thanks for your good wishes, and for the song choice :)!

(Anonymous)

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

And may you have many, many more like us..... we will be celebrating our 61st come January. Love and Aloha from Hawaii. james & margaret

Re: HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

Thanks, J and M!! We hope we make it to our 61st, too.
Awww!!! Great photoessay-- and what a fun wedding!
How about I....love...you....
(Paul McCartney and Wings, I think?)
We can't celebrate without Paul. Thanks for guessing!!
Congratulations on the anniversary! I'm gonna guess "Love Will Keep Us Together" by Captain and Tennille.
Thanks, and I love your Marilyn Monroe glamor user pic :)!
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi there! Any tunes from the 70's filtering through your brain?
Happy Anniversary!!! Uhmmmm the song.... I will guess....When I Need You-Leo Sayer. It's such a sweet song.
Yes, a very sweet song. Only time will tell . . . :)
What obvious joy you both were taking in that day. I have no idea what your song was, but I want to know: how were those "cucumbers in canary wine"?

Okay, I'll guess: Just Remember I Love You

Congratulations, and thanks again for sharing the pictures...they really made me happy today!
Yay, I'm glad you liked the pics. I vaguely remember that the cucumbers were not my favorite part of the menu. I don't really like my cukes cooked!
Congratulations! Your wedding looks like so much fun! I'm not even going to TRY and guess..oh, wait...House at Pooh Corner? :)
That guess makes perfect sense. Len is definitely teddy bear-like. Good luck!
My guess: You Light up my Life
And you lit up my day with your awesome picks. You had a minstrel!
Happy, happy anniversary!

My guess is You Light up my Life
Happy Anniversary! I can't bring myself to do the contest, cause ya know, it's your anniversary! Mama would have a fit.
Uh, okay . . .
Happy Anniversary!
:)!
"The Rose" by Bette Midler?

Beautiful pix, and very happy anniversary to you both!!
Thanks, Robin. I'm glad somebody noticed the roses . . .
Happy anniversary!

I don't have a guess, but I enjoyed the trip down your memory lane. :-)
Thanks for tripping down the lane with me!

Happy Anniversary!

Um, I'll go with "Feelings". Although I'm almost certainly wrong.

Re: Happy Anniversary!

Now there's a positive attitude :)!
Happy anniversary! I love your pictures. :) No idea about the song, though!
Take a wild guess. If no one gets the right answer, at least your name will go into the drawing.
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